Child Abuse and Neglect
Signs of Emotional Abuse:
Being excessively withdrawn, fearful, or anxious about doing something wrong
Showing extremes in behaviour (extremely compliant, demanding, passive, aggressive)
Not seeming to be attached to the parent or caregiver
Acting either inappropriately adult-like (taking care of other children) or inappropriately infantile (thumb-sucking, throwing tantrums)
Warning signs of Physical Abuse:
Having frequent injuries or unexplained bruises, welts, or cuts. Their injuries may appear to have a pattern such as marks from a hand or belt.
Being watchful and “on alert” as if waiting for something bad to happen
Shy away from touch, flinching at sudden movements, or seeming afraid to go home
Wearing inappropriate clothing to cover up injuries, such as long-sleeved shirts on hot days
Warning signs of Sexual Abuse:
Having trouble walking or sitting
Displaying knowledge of sexual acts inappropriate for their age, or even exhibiting seductive behaviour
Making strong efforts to avoid a specific person, without an obvious reason
Not wanting to change clothes in front of others or participate in physical activities
Having an STD or pregnancy, especially if < 14 years of age
Warning signs of Child Neglect:
Wearing ill-fitted, filthy, or inappropriate clothing for the weather
Having consistently bad hygiene (unbathed, unwashed hair, body odour, bad teeth)
Having untreated illnesses and physical injuries
Being frequently unsupervised or left alone or allowed to play in unsafe situations
Being frequently late or missing from school